05 May 5 Red Flags You’re Headed for a Difficult Divorce (and How to Prepare)
Not all divorces are the same. Some couples part ways peacefully, while others face a harder path filled with conflict and stress. If you’re thinking about filing for divorce, it’s important to recognize the warning signs that your case may be more challenging and know how to prepare.
Here are five red flags that may mean you’re headed for a difficult divorce — and steps you can take to protect yourself.
1. Communication Has Broken Down
If you and your spouse can no longer talk calmly or resolve disagreements, that’s a major warning sign. Constant arguing, stonewalling, or avoidance can make divorce more complicated and emotionally exhausting.
How to Prepare: Meet with a family law attorney early. They can help protect your interests and act as a buffer when communication becomes too strained or unsafe.
2. There Are Major Disagreements About the Kids
Child custody issues are often the most emotional part of divorce. If you and your spouse can’t agree on where the kids will live or who makes decisions, you may face a contested custody battle.
How to Prepare: Learn about your child custody options, and begin documenting your involvement in your child’s life. Keep records of schedules, school events, and communication to help support your case.
3. One Spouse Controls the Finances
When one spouse has control over all financial matters, it can leave the other feeling uncertain and vulnerable. Without access to financial information, you may not know what assets exist or what you’re entitled to in the divorce.
How to Prepare: Start gathering copies of financial records such as bank statements, tax returns, and pay stubs. A lawyer can help you understand what documents are important for your case.
4. Your Spouse Has Already Hired a Lawyer
If your spouse already has legal representation, and you don’t, you may be at a disadvantage. They’ll be advised on what to say and how to protect their assets from the start.
How to Prepare: Don’t wait to get legal guidance. Scheduling a consultation with a divorce attorney ensures you’re not facing the process alone.
5. You Feel Threatened or Unsafe
If there has been verbal abuse, threats, or violence in the relationship, your safety must come first. These situations can require court involvement for protection.
How to Prepare: Talk to a lawyer about your rights and whether a protective order is necessary. Having a plan in place can help you feel safer and more in control.
Final Thoughts
Every divorce is different, but these red flags can help you identify when it’s time to get serious about protecting yourself. At Navarrette Family Law, we’re here to guide you with compassion and clarity so you can take the next step with confidence.
Need help preparing for what’s ahead? Schedule a consultation today to speak with a member of our experienced team.