29 Apr What NOT to Post on Social Media During a Divorce
Going through a divorce can be stressful and emotional. You may want to share your thoughts, vent your feelings, or post updates about your life. But when it comes to social media, what you post can seriously affect your divorce or custody case.
At Navarrette Family Law, we’ve seen how one post can change everything. Here’s what you need to know about protecting yourself online during this important time.
Why Social Media Matters During Divorce
What you post on social media can be used as evidence in court. Judges, lawyers, and even your ex’s legal team can look at your posts to learn about your behavior, your lifestyle, or your finances. Even if your profile is private, screenshots can still be shared.
If you’re in a custody case, your social media presence may be used to question your parenting choices. That’s why it’s important to think before you post.
What NOT to Post
#1. Negative Comments About Your Ex
It might feel good to vent, but posting angry or mean comments about your ex can backfire. It may be seen as creating conflict or damaging your co-parenting relationship.
#2. Details About Your Case
Avoid posting updates about court hearings, legal advice, or anything related to your attorney’s strategy. Sharing legal information online can lead to misunderstandings or hurt your case.
#3. Photos That Show Irresponsible Behavior
Avoid posting pictures of partying, drinking, or risky activities. Even if you’re just having fun, these posts can be taken out of context and used against you in court, especially during custody disputes.
#4. New Relationships
It is best to hold off on sharing posts about a new romantic partner. This could create tension with your ex and negatively impact custody or settlement conversations.
#5. Spending Habits
Avoid posting about luxury purchases, vacations, or expensive outings. These posts can be used to argue that you’re hiding money or that you do not need financial support. For guidance on managing costs, read our blog on Options to Consider for Managing Divorce Expenses.
Be Mindful of Your Children
If you have children, remember they may see your posts or hear about them from others. Keep things respectful and focused on providing a stable and supportive environment.
If you need help creating a child-focused custody plan, check out our blog on Navigating Custody Changes: Tips to Ease the Transition for Kids.
What You Can Post Instead
- Family-friendly activities with your children
- Encouraging updates that reflect your growth or support system
- General life updates that do not mention your divorce or finances
When in doubt, it may be best to take a break from social media until your case is complete.
Social media can feel like a safe place to share, but during a divorce, it can also cause problems you did not expect. One post can create confusion, stress, or even harm your case.
At Navarrette Family Law, we are here to help you through every part of your divorce, including how to handle social media the smart way. If you are unsure what you should or shouldn’t post, contact us today. We are here to protect your future both in and out of court.